Am I Being Petty? Questions for a Better Next Move
Your frustration can be fair while your planned response needs a second draft. Start with these questions.
THE BLOG / SMALL PROBLEMS DEPARTMENT
A field guide to small annoyances, proportionate responses, and the things that are apparently furniture now.
FILE 01 / START HERE
A small annoyance, an unnecessarily large response, and the important difference between pettiness and a boundary.
Open the fileMORE FOR THE RECORD
Your frustration can be fair while your planned response needs a second draft. Start with these questions.
For the dishwasher that has been “basically emptied” for two days. Thirty original captions for small unfinished things.
Before declaring yourself a petty person, look at the specific moment, the expectation behind it, and what you'd like to do differently.
You can be annoyed and still choose a response you will like tomorrow. Start by retiring the secret punishment.
You do not need a sharper comeback. You need a response that keeps a small grievance from taking over your day.
THE APP BEHIND THE FILES
The shoes by the door. The box by the stairs. Your own unfinished project. Photograph it or write a note, start a clock, and keep a very accurate record.
Download Petty ClockFree to download · iPhone, iOS 17+ · U.S. App Store
3 active clocks, up to 72 hours each. Unlimited Clocks: $1.99 USD once.
ABOUT THE PETTY FILES
This is The Petty Clock’s blog, published by Maker Frontier. We write about ordinary annoyances, clearer conversations, and humor that stays focused on the situation. Our examples and captions are original; outside references are linked where used.
The app records elapsed time. The blog helps put it in perspective. Neither needs to turn a small inconvenience into a bigger argument.